Email: helena@helenaclare.com

  Call: 07970 065155

Pattern Breaker ✦ Life Changer

There must be more to life than this...

You’ve done the things you were told would make you happy.

You’ve worked hard. You’ve achieved. You’ve been responsible. You’ve become the person everyone can rely on.

From the outside, it might look like you have it all together.

But somewhere inside, there’s a quiet question:
"Is this really it?"

Not because your life is wrong.                                                                    Not because you are broken.

But because a part of you knows there is more.

More freedom. More joy. More trust. More of you.

The truth is...

You don't change your life by forcing yourself to become someone different.

You change your life by breaking the unconscious patterns that have been stopping you from being yourself.

I help capable, high-functioning people break the patterns that keep them stuck, so they can stop abandoning themselves and start living from a place that feels true.

Break the patterns.
Remember who you are.

Hi, I'm Helena.

And if something brought you here, I think we should talk.

I know landing on a new coach's website can feel like a lot.

So before you explore anything else - here's a few minutes of just me, talking to you honestly about who I work with, how I work, and whether you might be in exactly the right place.

27 years scientific expertise

2× National Coach of the Year

15+ years transforming lives

Neuroscience-backed methodology

Certified Paseda360 Practitioner

You're in the right place

Why you feel stuck

(even when you know better)

Have you ever found yourself thinking:

"I know exactly what I need to do... so why can't I do it?"

You may understand the problem.

You may even know where your patterns come from.

You can often explain why you react the way you do.

But awareness and insight alone doesn’t create transformation.

Because these patterns are not just conscious thoughts.

They are deeply embedded responses held in your subconscious mind and nervous system.

They influence:

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    The decisions you make
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    The boundaries you set
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    The way you see yourself
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    The behaviours you repeat
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    The choices you believe are available to you.

Until those underlying patterns change, you can find yourself repeating the same cycles - even when you desperately want something different.

Remember who you are

The world taught you to become useful.

 

To be responsible. To achieve. To keep going. To make other people happy. To be the person everyone can count on.

 

And those patterns may have helped you succeed.

 

Until they didn't.

 

Because the same patterns that helped you survive can become the patterns that stop you from truly living.

 

You become brilliant at doing what is expected....

but disconnected from what is true.

 

My work is about helping you come home to yourself.

 

Not by creating a new version of you.

 

But by removing the unconscious patterns that have been hiding who you already are.

IMAGINE THIS INSTEAD

What becomes possible when

the

patterns break

01

You show up authentically - without the mask

No more performing a version of yourself that's worn thin. You show up as your actual self, in every room, with every person.

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    So that you finally feel at home in your own life, not like a guest in someone else's.

02

You understand the patterns that have been running the show

You see clearly - with compassion, not judgment - why you've been stuck. And with that clarity comes genuine, lasting freedom.

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    So that you stop repeating cycles and start creating the life you actually want.

03

You build a life that actually fits you

Your values. Your energy. Your truth. Not the version of success you've been chasing to prove something - but a life that feels genuinely yours.

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    So that you wake up energised about your life, not just relieved to get through the day.

04

Your real self steps forward - fully and freely

The version of you that existed before the world told you to be smaller, quieter, more careful. Unapologetic. Fully alive. Still there, waiting to be remembered.

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    So that you laugh more, trust yourself more, don't overthink everything anymore, feel lighter, alive. Like yourself again.

05

You feel grounded, honest, and true

Not perfect. Not performing. Powerfully, beautifully human - and completely at ease being exactly that.

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    So that your relationships, decisions, and direction come from your real self, not your fear.

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This shift lasts - because it happened at the root

This isn't a mindset hack. It's genuine, embodied transformation that you feel in your bones - because it changed at the neurological level, not just the surface.

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    So that the patterns that held you back don't quietly creep back in.
Helena in a Mask Chair

ABOUT HELENA

I've been where

you are.

Before I became a coach, I spent as a 27 years as a pharmacist. I understood the science of how the body works - how chemistry affects everything. But for a long time, I didn't know how to apply that same rigour to my own life, my own patterns, my own transformation.

I know what it's like to wear the mask so convincingly that no one - including yourself - realises you're drowning underneath. I know the gap between looking successful and feeling hollow.

I know first hand what it's like to sit there and think "is this it?" and realise I had completely forgotten who I was, underneath the expectations of others and who I thought I should be. 

And I know - because I've lived it, and because I've walked hundreds of people through it - that it doesn't have to stay that way.

I'm not here to fix you. You were never broken. I'm here to help you find the patterns that have been running the show - and dismantle them. Together. At the root.

  • 2× National Coach of the Year
  • Master Practitioner NLP
  • Reiki Level 2 Practitioner
  • Meditation Instructor
  • Certified Paseda360 Advanced Practitioner
  • Certified Hypnotherapist
  • GC Index Accredited Practitioner
  • 15+ years working with high-achievers

WHY IT ACTUALLY WORKS

You can't think your way out of

patterns that live in your body.

I help people break the unconscious patterns that have been shaping their lives without them even realising it.

Patterns like:

  • constantly putting yourself last
  • overthinking every decision
  • needing to prove your worth
  • chasing perfection
  • people-pleasing
  • staying small to feel safe
  • ignoring your own needs and intuition

These patterns were created for a reason. They were ways of protecting you, helping you belong, or helping you succeed. But they don’t have to define your future.

My work combines subconscious transformation, nervous-system regulation and identity-level change to help you create new ways of thinking, feeling and responding.

Because when the pattern changes… your choices change. Your behaviours change. 

Your life changes.

THE FOUNDATION

Paseda360 Framework

This is not a collection of techniques. It is one integrated methodology - human-centric, trauma-informed and rooted in the neuroscience and psychology of lasting change. Most approaches work at the surface. This one goes to the root - to the neural pathways and belief systems that are actually running the show. Built on the Paseda360® framework, it integrates the psychology of behaviour, the neuroscience of change and trauma-informed practice into one coherent, deeply personal approach that is felt in the body, not just understood in the mind. Havening For Coaches®, Limitless Light Therapy®, nervous system regulation, visualisation, breathwork and guided meditation are all woven together - not as separate techniques, but as threads within a single, integrated journey of transformation. Safe, ethical and designed to break patterns at the root.

DEEPER INTEGRATION

Reiki

When the moment calls for it, Reiki provides energetic clearing and deeper integration - supporting the emotional and physiological shifts happening through the core work, and helping those shifts settle fully into the body.

GROUNDING THE WORK

Meditation

Bespoke, personalised practice - designed specifically around your patterns and your journey. Not generic. A tool that becomes yours to keep and use long after our work together ends.

SELF-UNDERSTANDING

GC Index

A powerful profiling tool that reveals how you are genuinely wired to contribute - not how you think you should be, or how others expect you to be - your energy for impact. Particularly valuable for high-achieving professionals redefining their role and identity.

THE REAL DIFFERENCE

My Energy & Experience

I've walked this path myself. Knowing which tool to reach for, when to push and when to hold space, how to meet you exactly where you are - that comes from lived experience, not a textbook. It's the part of this work that cannot be replicated.

This alchemy creates something you won't find anywhere else. My clients don't just feel different. They feel grounded, honest, and true. The masks come off. The performing stops. The real, unapologetic person shines through — and stays.

WORK WITH ME

Start where you are.

Go as deep as you're ready.

Different people need different levels of support.


Whether you are looking for clarity, a breakthrough or deeper transformation, there is a place to begin.


And your investment always credits forward.

FOUNDATION

Unmasked

Take off the mask. Meet the person underneath.

£350

6 weeks  ·  Group programme · Online

Perfect if you're intrigued but not yet ready for deep 1:1 work. A safe, intimate group container to start naming the patterns that have been running your life.

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    6 group sessions using Paseda360® Unmasked framework
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    Maximum 8-10 participants - safe and intimate
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    Session recordings to revisit
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    Private community space between sessions
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    Journalling toolkit and reflection prompts

1:1 STARTING POINT

Stop Being Stuck Breakthrough

Break the initial pattern. Get unstuck. Fast.

£995

Half-day intensive or 2 × 90-min sessions + follow-up  ·  1:1  

Ready for 1:1 work but want to start with one focused breakthrough? Immediate pattern identification, a tangible shift, and the option to go deeper - your investment credits forward.

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    Half-day intensive (or 2 × 90-min sessions) - Face to Face or Online
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    1-hour follow-up to consolidate the shift & plan next steps
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    Paseda360® Phase 1 framework
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    Immediate pattern identification and interruption
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    Personalised tools to take forward
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    Upgrade to Beyond the Breakthrough - just pay the difference

FULL TRANSFORMATION

Beyond the Breakthrough

Break the pattern. Find the real you. Create a life you love.

£2995

~6 months · 1:1 programme

The full transformation journey. Three phases, deep 1:1 work, everything included. This is where lasting change happens - at the root, not the surface.

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    Full 3-phase Paseda360® journey
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    Stop Being Stuck intensive included
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    Plus 6 × 90-min 1:1 sessions over 6 months
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    WhatsApp support between sessions
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    GC Index profile and review
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    Personalised tools and practices throughout

FULL PARTNERSHIP

Beyond the Breakthrough: Mastery

Transformational Partnership. Full immersion. Bespoke. Nothing held back.

£5995

12 months · Bespoke 1:1 partnership

For the person who wants everything. Full immersion, bespoke programme design, and me fully in your corner for a complete year of transformation.

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    Everything in Beyond the Breakthrough
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    Additional 6 × 90-min sessions (12 months total)
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    3 Reiki sessions included (distance/in-person)
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    Bespoke guided meditation recording
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    Ongoing strategy and integration support

RELATIONSHIP CLARITY

The Crossroads

For when you're not sure whether to stay, go, or begin again.

£595

Half-day intensive + follow-up · 1:1

Your relationship looks fine from the outside - but inside you're spinning. This is you-work in a supported space, helping you reconnect with your truth and choose with confidence.

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    Half-day in-person intensive
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    Follow-up session (Zoom or in-person)
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    Release stuck emotion and understand your patterns
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    Explore both possibilities - staying or leaving
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    Leave with clarity, calm, self-trust and a next steps plan

Your investment always credits forward. Start with any 1:1 programme and upgrade anytime - you only ever pay the difference. You never pay twice.

WHAT CLIENTS SAY

Real people.

Real Transformation.

Ready to remember yourself?

Maybe you’ve been waiting for the right time. The right answer. The right version of yourself.

 But what if you stopped waiting?

What if the person you’ve been looking for isn’t someone you need to become… but someone you need to remember?

Your next chapter starts here.

The first step is a Chemistry Call - a genuine, no-pressure conversation about where you are, where you want to be, and whether we're the right fit to work together.

Break the patterns. Remember who you are.

No sales pitch. No pressure. Just an honest conversation.
(You can take the girl out of the pharmacy, but you can't take the pharmacy out of the girl!)

Paseda360 Accredited Havening Coach Level One
Paseda360 Accredited Havening Coach Level 2
Unmasked Programme Facilitator